It has been almost exactly 21 years since I first adopted a list of 5 priorities for my life, and actually put them into practice.
The need for priorities is obvious to me. Every day there are competing demands on my time. Rather than re-think everything, and re-invent the wheel, I have my list of priorities [...]

Yes, help yourself first. Do not start by helping others. Start by helping yourself.
We are all helpers.
You make your living helping others. This is true whether you are a doctor, nurse, teacher, lawyer, CEO, secretary, bricklayer, or programmer. It is true whether you work for yourself, for a large or small company, or for the [...]